ASK THE BRUNETTES
Hello Ladies,
ASK THE BRUNETTES is a segment where Marialys and I will be answering any questions you may have! I love nothing more than talking about fashion, beauty, life and fitness so if you need any advice or just want us to answer a completely random question, just leave a comment below! Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE on the top right so you can receive the notification when your response goes up!
Lots of love,
Xoxo Jen
Hey ladies I hope you have the time to answer this. So there is this guy at the gym I go to that’s really cute. We’ve made eye contact a bunch of times and he’s always working out next to me. But he won’t come up and talk to me. What should I do? I don’t want to go up to him so what should I do?
Thanks. Jessica
Hey girls! I wanted to know what you think I should do…I met this guy named Victor in the ER at a hospital. He actually works there as an ER Tech. My mom was in the hospital for a week…weird experience to find someone attractive I know but once my mom got transferred to another room I didn’t see him again. Until one time I was talking to my sister about him and as I’m describing her to him, he walked right past me and we looked at each other the whole time and he smiled at me and I smiled back. I want to get to know him better, what should I do?!?!
Thank you!!! guys for answering so fast. I actually did what Jen recommended and tried the smirk thing today. It took a few attempts but every time we locked eyes I tried to slip one in. He actually got the message and asked me to jump in the machine I was in. When he asked me I took of my headphones and told him it was fine to jump in I kept one off always so he could see my interest in him. We had a great convo and he asked for my #. Thanks again you guys are amazing.
Xoxo jessica
Aw you’re welcome ! Made my night(: So glad for you !
Xoxo, jen
How did you ladies fit time for the gym while working and going to school? I personally do not work, but I do go to school full time and have two babies and cannot find the time or energy for gym at the moment. But I’m dying to figure it out. My alone time is precious to me, especially at the gym.
So I need help I’m sort of with two guys and I don’t know who to pick one of them I haven’t met… But the other one I’m with everyday basically the one that I haven’t met lives in tally and we have an amazing connection which is so strong which I don’t think I’ll ever have with the guy from Miami even though I really like him
How do you know if a certain guy is “the one”?
How to get rid of sweat pimples? I always had fairly clear skin, but ever since I started the gym I started to get acne. I wash my face after my workouts but that doesn’t seem to help.
Hi girls I have never used BB Cream before and I wanted to know which brands do you recommend for best coverage?
Protein powder?? So many to pick from, any recommendations? I’m looking to tone and build a bit of muscle
Hey brunettes I’m in a lil bit of a bind. There’s this guy at my gym who I could tell really liked me he would always try to make eye contact with me and always worked out close to me. I didn’t give him the time of day because I had a bf and I just didn’t find him that attractive. Well I ended up changing my gym time and I didn’t see him for about two months. My bf and I broke up and I started going to the gym again at my old schedule. I saw him and he’s gotten a lot bigger and I think he’s really sexy now. The problem is he won’t even look at me now and he’s doesn’t workout by me at all. I think he’s mad because I ignored him all that time. I went FBI and looked him up on social media and he doesn’t have a gf. What should I do?? I really like him. sorry for the punctuation I just finished an essay and I didn’t want to deal with it lol.
XOXO dont take guys for granted.
Hey girls any advice on getting over someone you’ve been with for so long ? I’m trying to get over a relationship of 5 years but when things are not good between him and I, I tend to feel sick (loose appetite) (can’t focus) it’s just horrible. I’ve tried working out hanging with friends but it’s just so difficult. I always find myself trying to go back and force things when I know it’s just over.
Thanks
Ana 🙂
Hey girls! So I have been talking to this guy for a few months who just told me he leaving to the military in a couple of months if he’s accepted. I’ve done long distance before in one of my past relationships .For over a year and it must say it wasn’t easy. I really like him and want something … maybe it’s just bad timing for us. I don’t know if I should end it now before getting more emotionally involved or just continue as see where it goes. Any tips ? Xoxo
Hey girl!
I’m really hoping you could shed some light on my current situation. I know most, if not all girls have a really bad habit of comparing themselves to other girls and if done too often it can totally get to your head. I’m in that current situation, only that it is happening with a really close friend. Not only does she have an amazing body but she is always getting attention. ALWAYS. I try not to mind it but lately I can’t help it. I know this has to do a lot with self confidence and what not, but Im not really the type of girl to think ill of herself. This whole thing is really starting to affect me, especially because we are so close. Any advice?
Hey girls!
I have quite a complicated situation in my hands. I’ve known/talked to this guy for years but nothing has ever happened. He always tells me how much he likes me and takes me out and we have a strong connection. However, recently he confessed to me that he’s talking to another girl and after a month he told me he’s not talking to her anymore. I did some FBI searching and found out they’re still hanging out. How can I make sure they’re really not talking anymore without sounding completely crazy to him?
Thank you girls, I love your blog <3
Hey ladies! I’ve been in love with your blog since day one and thought who better yet to ask for advice than the brunettes? (I really hope you guys choose my question) Okay, so, my best friend and her boyfriend have been dating for 3 years already and we’ve all been really close (including my boyfriend, we’re always double-dating). But lately, he’s been really sketch on social media. Suddenly, he stopped posting pictures of her on instagram and snapchat, and every time we’re out his phone goes off and he always ignores it. Last weekend, my boyfriend and me went to Sidebar and I’m pretty sure I saw him with a girl who wasn’t my best friend. The place was dark and he hid as soon as he spotted us. I don’t know how to tell my best friend or to just confront him myself. HELP ME!!
xoxo, A.
Hey girls congrats on your blog.. I really enjoy your tips. I want to know if you could make a video about your hair care routine and hair cut. Thanks
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Hi Girls
Will Im in Love with two brothers I’m dating one of them me and him have been together for 3 months now will He say he loves me but he go behind my back and talks to other girls And he telling me not to Leave him if I do he will kill himself he got my name tatted on him and he already stabbed himself on the stomach and on his chest just for me because I trying to leave him Will when he out with other Females I’m talking to his brother and I’m starting to fall in love his brother but the thing is He is dating my best friend
Plus my man Find out im starting to fall in love with his brother and he tell me to stop talking to him I tell him to stop talking to other females but he say no and His Favorite word is I’mma go and I hate it
He says those words because he hates it when I tell him the truth
I don’t know what to do I love My man But I I also love his brother
Help me please
Xoxo M
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Hey girls, I will be 19 in October and have never been to a club. I don’t know how they work so I was hoping you guys can give me some insight. Some questions that I have are: Do you just walkin or is there typically a line you have to wait in in order to get in? Do you have to pay to get into most clubs in Miami? Are clubs that are 21+ strict about entering if you are underage or can you just make your way in? I have heard good things about clubs like Space, E11even and L’Boulevard but would love you hear about places you guys recommend! Please answer any important questions I may have missed or any that you think I should know! Thanks girls.
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Hey girlssss, so in your last video you said if your ex is going through something and seeking your attention cause of it you should be there for him… what do you do when he calls you once a week to see how you are and then ends up yelling and going crazy on you to then apologize a hundred times and make you pity him? Because girlll I don’t even know what to do anymore the other day I snapped on him and said he was getting blocked and he said he didn’t care that he has another twitter account since I blocked him and that he’ll show up to my house and make my life hell. (Not the same girl that asked about last time.) (we broke up because he kept on disrespecting me and I stopped putting up with it.)
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How do i break up with my boyfriend. I still love him he didnt do anything wrong but i just dont wanna be with him like i feel bored everything he does just annoys me now and we dont even have sex anymore (bc i dont want to, not him) but im too scared to leave him i feel so bad and like i said i still love him so the thought of breaking up makes me sad but then i feel im not happy? So confused. Please help.
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Hi girls, Defenitely Loving the blog, Could you do a video on wardrobe essentials (what you consider every girl should have on her closet)
Thank you??
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Hey girls I need some advice on how to get over a breakup even when you still love the other person. I’ve been struggling with a recent breakup and it feels like the pain is never going to go away, especially since I thought this guy was “the one” he was like no one that I’ve ever met which is why I fell so hard for him. I could really use some tips on some good ways to keep busy and keep my mind off of the breakup because right now things have been very difficult for me.
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Hey girls! My question is what should you do if your man still hasnt told you he loves you after a year of dating? My boyfriend(27) and I(20) just made our 1 year anniversary & he still hasnt told me he loves me back. He says he sees a future with me but has gotten hurt so many times in the past that he is afraid of love now. I want to move on to the next step & possibly move in with him & Im sure he does too since he hints at it here & there. But sometimes I just feel like “ how could I move in & take that risk if he doesnt even move me yet?”. What should I do? Should I just forget about taking the next step until he feels the same for me ?
Thank you in advance ! You girls are the cutest ily!
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Hey girls. I really suck at doing makeup, do you guys think you can do a basic going out tutorial? Or tips and tricks to do good eyeshadow and what eyebrow brushes to use! I really wanna start looking better when I go out but looking at YouTube tutorials seem complicated, and I never know if I’m doing it right lol. If you can make it simple to follow that’ll be great!
Hey Brunettes!
I was wondering what your input is on the single life. I recently got out of a serious relationship that lasted what feels like forever. Now I’m the single one in my group of friends, that’s practically never been single before. I see everyone is getting married, having kids and moving out. I’m worried about what’s going to happen in the future and if I’m going to be the only one single in my group of girls. I don’t want to get into any relationship right now but I also fear the future…. what advice can you give me? Thanks!
Hey girls. I think you two have exceptional fashion senses. In your opinions, what is the attire of a well dressed man? What does a well dressed man wear day to day? I’m a guy and I want to start improving my wardrobe. I would appreciate any advice you two could provide.Thank you.
Hey girls!
I could really use your advice on how to deal with overbearing and hypocritical in-laws, specifically [his] parents. I’m really struggling with this and it has been causing some strain on my relationship for a while now but I genuinely cannot stand them. There’s obviously some back history, but I don’t really want to get into details. Is this a potential deal breaker?
Hey girls I have a difficult question today and need your help! So I dated my ex for about 5 and a half years and there was a point in our relationship where his family couldn’t afford a phone so my dad put him in our plan and got him a phone(now a days the phone is a lease). We broke up 9 months ago and until this day my dad is paying for his phone and we have tried to get in contact with him to give us the phone because we owe $150 unless we give the phone back and he has blocked my whole family and friends from his phone. I wanted to have compassion because i did end things with him. I know where he works, should I just grow a pair and go get the phone.
P.S he got a new gf ASAP, I’m over him but I’m upset my dad is paying for his phone and he hasn’t once asked to pay for it when he works please lmk what you think
So i see you girls have a how to get his attention at the gym. But some of us guys know the negative reputation that comes with attempting to approach a girl at the gym. So what would you girls think is the best course for a guy to approach a girl At the gym. Basically what are some of the subtle things a guy can do to spark that interest in a girl at the gym!
**Hey Girls
so I just got out of a six year relationship and I kinda lost contact with my freinds after high school and focused all my attention on him thinking he was the one and my best friend moved far away for college ( I know bad ) but now I find myself doing everything by myself and just wishing I had some friends or girl time once in a while but how do you make friends in your 20’s ? its weird its not like we are not in high school anymore. I feel like making friends with someone in your 20’s is hard because everyone is always like hi and bye lol ( including me) and this one friend I did stay in contact with always wants to do stuff with her boyfriend cause she claims she’s broke and he pays for everything so he has to come along! (WACK) but I’m not trying to feel like a 3rd wheel I wanted girl time ! I don’t want to hang out with both! I don’t know what to do. ( me and this girl totally like different things now and she calls me her best friend ) but she always hits me up to hang out with me & I’m trying to distance myself from her because we are just totally different but it’s not working lol she keeps inviting me to do stuff she knows I don’t like to do. I believe this is 2 issues in one lol.
Hello girls! I need some advice and would love for you two to help. I have been friends with this guy for years now and we have always had a strong connection but a few months ago we overstepped the boundaries of our friendship and since then it has never been the same. We never discussed what had happened and we act differently around each other now. What should I do?
Hey girls. Need your insight. So I’ve been single for 4 years now and it seems like every guy I meet only wants to sleep around and leave. I get that we’re young and not many guys in their 20s are ready to settle down, but it’s exhausting going through this with every single guy I talk to and confusing to me that I can’t seem to find a man who just wants to be with me. I see some girls hop from relationship to relationship and don’t know how they do it so easily! I know I’m not perfect but I don’t think I’m that bad either. I used to blame myself but it can’t be. What’s up with these boys? Have you ladies experienced something like this?
Hey girls
I know u guys don’t do this type of question but I would appreciate it a lot if u guys can help me giving me tips or remedies on anxiety n panic attacks issues. Thank you
Hey girls,
This is kinda of a complicated story but I try to sum it up the best I can 🙂
I used to date this guy casually not for long. It was just 6 months on/off. He told me he wanted to date me seriously but his actions never matched his words. I ended it because you know feelings suck and I didn’t want to get more hurt. There were no hard feelings at that time. I realized we didn’t want the same things. We actually remained friends. Kept in touch here and there. Fast forward a year later and this same guy is hitting me up to hang out and stuff. I saw him because I missed having out with him as friend. I give him the benefit of the doubt. Anyway I know very dumb of me and things didn’t change. After I saw him I told him, I thought after all this time I thought we were done with our old habitats and he pointed the finger at me…saying “what did I expect?” I apologized told him I was sorry I thought things changed since we literally remained friends after all this time. I realize I should not apologize for knowing what I want. He should apologize to me . This guy manipulates me with this words and I fall for it every damn time. Before I decided to even see him… this was going on for 3 months. He was asking me almost every weekend or so to catch up and hangout saying “I want to see you its been forever” lets do something'” etc I said no no no until that day I decided to say yes finall…There was even a time I was out on a date and I told him I couldn’t talk at the moment. He called me 3 times and messaged me nonstop. I had to mute my phone. His actions never match his words. It’s so confusing. It sometimes feels like a cat and mouse game playing with eachother feelings. How do you get over someone who kinda used you? I know self love always but im so heartbroken.I liked this guy so much its insane. I am wrapped around his finger and I hate it!!! I ask myself how did I fall for someone like this?
xoxo
Hi, I have a major problem I’m hoping you can give me some advice on. My boyfriend broke up with me for another girl but continues to flirt with me while they are dating. He is now telling me him and his gf might break up and is trying to make out with me and be my bf again. My problem is that I was heart broken when we broke up (we had been together for 2 yrs.) so I jumped into a new relationship very quickly trying to forget about my now ex. This new guy is a really sweet person. I want my ex back really bad but am afraid that it will be for nothing and I will get hurt again. I don’t want to hurt the guy I am with now and I also want to be with him. I am in a pickle and don’t know how to choose. My ex has always been my bestfriend and knows my past and is still able to comfort me when my home life gets really bad. My boyfriend now, is unaware of my past and hasn’t known me very long. All my friends think I should go back to my ex but I’m not sure if that’s the right chose. Please help me !