Hello Ladies,

Ask THE BRUNETTES is a new weekly Vlog where Marialys and I will answer questions from you; my wonderful readers ! I love nothing more than talking about fashion, beauty and fitness so if you need any advice or  just want us to answer a completely random question , just leave a comment below!


Lots of love,
Xoxo Jen

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  1. Hey ladies I hope you have the time to answer this. So there is this guy at the gym I go to that’s really cute. We’ve made eye contact a bunch of times and he’s always working out next to me. But he won’t come up and talk to me. What should I do? I don’t want to go up to him so what should I do?

    Thanks. Jessica

  2. Hey girls! I wanted to know what you think I should do…I met this guy named Victor in the ER at a hospital. He actually works there as an ER Tech. My mom was in the hospital for a week…weird experience to find someone attractive I know but once my mom got transferred to another room I didn’t see him again. Until one time I was talking to my sister about him and as I’m describing her to him, he walked right past me and we looked at each other the whole time and he smiled at me and I smiled back. I want to get to know him better, what should I do?!?!

  3. Thank you!!! guys for answering so fast. I actually did what Jen recommended and tried the smirk thing today. It took a few attempts but every time we locked eyes I tried to slip one in. He actually got the message and asked me to jump in the machine I was in. When he asked me I took of my headphones and told him it was fine to jump in I kept one off always so he could see my interest in him. We had a great convo and he asked for my #. Thanks again you guys are amazing.

    Xoxo jessica

  4. How did you ladies fit time for the gym while working and going to school? I personally do not work, but I do go to school full time and have two babies and cannot find the time or energy for gym at the moment. But I’m dying to figure it out. My alone time is precious to me, especially at the gym.

  5. So I need help I’m sort of with two guys and I don’t know who to pick one of them I haven’t met… But the other one I’m with everyday basically the one that I haven’t met lives in tally and we have an amazing connection which is so strong which I don’t think I’ll ever have with the guy from Miami even though I really like him

  6. How to get rid of sweat pimples? I always had fairly clear skin, but ever since I started the gym I started to get acne. I wash my face after my workouts but that doesn’t seem to help.

  7. Hey brunettes I’m in a lil bit of a bind. There’s this guy at my gym who I could tell really liked me he would always try to make eye contact with me and always worked out close to me. I didn’t give him the time of day because I had a bf and I just didn’t find him that attractive. Well I ended up changing my gym time and I didn’t see him for about two months. My bf and I broke up and I started going to the gym again at my old schedule. I saw him and he’s gotten a lot bigger and I think he’s really sexy now. The problem is he won’t even look at me now and he’s doesn’t workout by me at all. I think he’s mad because I ignored him all that time. I went FBI and looked him up on social media and he doesn’t have a gf. What should I do?? I really like him. sorry for the punctuation I just finished an essay and I didn’t want to deal with it lol.

    XOXO dont take guys for granted.

  8. Hey girls any advice on getting over someone you’ve been with for so long ? I’m trying to get over a relationship of 5 years but when things are not good between him and I, I tend to feel sick (loose appetite) (can’t focus) it’s just horrible. I’ve tried working out hanging with friends but it’s just so difficult. I always find myself trying to go back and force things when I know it’s just over.

    Ana 🙂

  9. Hey girls! So I have been talking to this guy for a few months who just told me he leaving to the military in a couple of months if he’s accepted. I’ve done long distance before in one of my past relationships .For over a year and it must say it wasn’t easy. I really like him and want something … maybe it’s just bad timing for us. I don’t know if I should end it now before getting more emotionally involved or just continue as see where it goes. Any tips ? Xoxo

  10. Hey girl!
    I’m really hoping you could shed some light on my current situation. I know most, if not all girls have a really bad habit of comparing themselves to other girls and if done too often it can totally get to your head. I’m in that current situation, only that it is happening with a really close friend. Not only does she have an amazing body but she is always getting attention. ALWAYS. I try not to mind it but lately I can’t help it. I know this has to do a lot with self confidence and what not, but Im not really the type of girl to think ill of herself. This whole thing is really starting to affect me, especially because we are so close. Any advice?

  11. Hey girls!

    I have quite a complicated situation in my hands. I’ve known/talked to this guy for years but nothing has ever happened. He always tells me how much he likes me and takes me out and we have a strong connection. However, recently he confessed to me that he’s talking to another girl and after a month he told me he’s not talking to her anymore. I did some FBI searching and found out they’re still hanging out. How can I make sure they’re really not talking anymore without sounding completely crazy to him?

    Thank you girls, I love your blog <3

  12. Hey ladies! I’ve been in love with your blog since day one and thought who better yet to ask for advice than the brunettes? (I really hope you guys choose my question) Okay, so, my best friend and her boyfriend have been dating for 3 years already and we’ve all been really close (including my boyfriend, we’re always double-dating). But lately, he’s been really sketch on social media. Suddenly, he stopped posting pictures of her on instagram and snapchat, and every time we’re out his phone goes off and he always ignores it. Last weekend, my boyfriend and me went to Sidebar and I’m pretty sure I saw him with a girl who wasn’t my best friend. The place was dark and he hid as soon as he spotted us. I don’t know how to tell my best friend or to just confront him myself. HELP ME!!
    xoxo, A.